Only 25% of Kids Engage in Daily Face-to-Face Play, NSPCC Reports

A significant number of parents feel that their childhood experiences were superior to those of their children, as a new report shows that only 25% of kids play face-to-face on a daily basis.

A comprehensive survey conducted by NSPCC indicates that 55% of parents with children under the age of 18 believe their own childhoods provided them with “better experiences” compared to their kids. Additionally, 54% stated their childhood was less challenging, and 63% felt it was safer than today’s childhood.

The YouGov survey, which queried 4,017 parents to evaluate children’s play activities, revealed that 59% of respondents wish their children engaged in more in-person playing.

The study found that only 25% of parents reported their child played with a peer or parent every day, with just 15% noting that such interactions occurred more than once per day.

For teenagers aged 12-16, the daily in-person play figures dropped to 21%, and only 5% participated in such activities multiple times a day.

In contrast, 27% of all parents noted that their children play online games daily, with 12% indicating that these gaming sessions occur more than once a day.

Among 12 to 16-year-olds, the daily participation in online gaming rose to 35%, with 19% engaged in these activities several times a day.

One-third of parents stated that concerns over safety are the primary obstacle preventing their children from engaging in more face-to-face play. Other noted barriers include the easy accessibility of online games, which 26% of parents identified as an issue.

Furthermore, around 25% of parents highlighted the ongoing cost-of-living crisis as a factor making it difficult to financially support extracurricular clubs. Additionally, 12% mentioned a “lack of space” available, while nearly a quarter attributed their children’s socialization difficulties to a “lack of friends.”

Chris Sherwood, Chief Executive of the NSPCC, remarked: “It is instinctual for parents to desire a better life for their children, yet our research indicates a troubling trend in childhood experiences today.

“The decline in in-person play is particularly troubling, and we all share the responsibility to address this issue.

“Encouraging children and young people to play more with peers and family—both indoors and outdoors—can significantly enhance their physical and mental health as well as overall well-being.”

Lucy Marsh from the Family Education Trust expressed concern, stating: “It is alarming to see that numerous children are spending substantial amounts of time online instead of engaging in play with friends or family. This trend is detrimental not only to their physical well-being but also hinders their ability to socialize adequately.

“Unfortunately, many parents have turned to electronic devices as substitutes for childcare rather than interacting with their children. Most families now have both parents working extensive hours, leaving limited opportunities to engage in activities or play dates after school due to financial constraints from the ongoing cost-of-living crisis.

“If the government genuinely aims to address the mental health challenges and support resilience in children, it should provide both financial and practical help to encourage families to spend more quality time together.”